Steven Furtick - You Don't Have To
God is great. Turn to the person next to you and tell them, "God is with you today". Look at them again and say, "I can tell". Ask them, "Would you like a hug"? If they don't cuss at you, give them a big hug. I want you to turn around and give about four or five hugs all over the room. Congratulations, Elevation Columbia, on your new building. Congratulations to all of our locations. You made it to church. Congratulations to you. You made it through another week. You made it to another day. Come on. How many are grateful to be in the number? One more day! That's my section right there. I found my section right there. You'd better be glad they're not on the front row.
We would never get out of worship. I saw some rowdiness over here too. It was weird, because Christmas season is supposed to get stuffy. Everybody gets really busy and hateful. No greater way to tell Jesus "Happy birthday" than to run up our credit cards, get stressed out, and hate everything. So we kind of try to make it countercultural. I like to take a little extra time during worship before I preach as we lead to the holidays just because the seed of the Word of God is always pure, but if the soil of your heart is not plowed, you can't receive it. One thing I do understand is that sometimes it takes us a lot to get to church. If you're watching online, you've already had three distractions, haven't you? You already had a virus pop up on your PC.
What are you going to do about that? Well, let's just block it all out, because all the hell you have to go through when you get home doesn't stand a chance in this place for the next few minutes while we preach God's Word. I want to bring heaven down to your heart for a few minutes. Just for the next half hour or so, I want to preach a thought to your heart today from the Christmas story. I do also want to say what JJ said. I assume all of the campus pastors and our online team thanked you for your remarkable generosity. Of course, our year-end offering comes all the way to the end of the year, but I want to thank all of you who already stepped up and gave sacrificially, faithfully. God is going to use that in a great way. Thank you. It always feels weird saying, "Thank you," because I know you didn't give it to me or for me. You gave it to God. One thing I know about God. He will not be outgiven.
So be expectant for him to do things in your life over the next few weeks. I don't know who this is for. God can do something at the end of this year that will make all the hell you went through all year long irrelevant in the scope of it. I don't even know what it's going to be. It could be a perspective. I noticed God has been blessing me with better perspective the last few days. I can't explain it. He's just been opening my eyes, like, "Look at that". I woke up this morning super early to pray for you and saw both of the boys' vehicles still in the driveway and thought, "Thank you, Lord, for bringing them home safe again another night".
I got to stand next to my daughter during worship today. Y'all don't know this, but Abbey was a cowriter on that song "Same God". I'm not giving her any royalties. Here's her contribution. When we wrote the song originally, it was, "I'm calling on the God of David. I'm calling on the God of Jacob. I'm calling on the God of Moses". I always wanted to put a woman in the song, but I couldn't figure out how to do it. I thought it was kind of lopsided to just have all men in the song. I showed Abbey the demo, and she said, "I love that song. Why isn't there a woman in it"?
It was a confirmation. I didn't even tell her I had felt bad about it too. I called my buddy Pat Barrett. We had already recorded the song. That was the bad part about it. We decided we needed a verse about "I'm calling on the God of Mary whose favor rests upon the lowly". I love what it says. "I know with you all things are possible". Big things, little things, pretty things, ugly things, things seen, and things unseen. All things are possible. We're going to share from a Scripture that coincides with that in Luke, chapter 1. I'm going to read a very lengthy part of this, verses 26-41, but you can handle it. I also leaned over to Abbey and said, "Next year, you and I are singing 'O Holy Night' together as a duet. Get ready". She rolled her eyes. We'll see. It's a voluntary offer. Pray about it.
Wasn't the music beautiful today? We have singers who sing so well you can't even tell if they prayed or not. They just sound so good. "I think that was the Holy Spirit or it was the vocal cords or both". I thank God for our team. I'm excited about the Christmas services, December 22-24. That's christmasatelevation.com. Now it's time for the Scripture. Luke 1:26: "In the sixth month of Elizabeth's pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee…" I'm going to come back to that. You'll forget it because I'm going to read so much, but that verse is coming back. "…to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin's name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, 'Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.'"
That's why I had you tell your neighbor, "The Lord is with you". I wanted you to see how it felt to talk to an angel. Verse 29 says, "Mary was greatly troubled…" Whoa, whoa, whoa. I thought he said something that was nice and a compliment, but the Bible says Mary was greatly troubled. Did you know you can be highly favored and greatly troubled at the same time? Come on. Nod like you know what I'm talking about or I'm going to start citing specific things in this room. You can be anointed and addicted. You can be saved and struggling. You can be grateful and a gossip. You can be favored and afraid. Just because you feel afraid sometimes doesn't cancel out the favor in your life.
I want to tell somebody today the favor doesn't care about your feelings. When God has a purpose for your life, he's going to do what he's going to do no matter how you feel about it, no matter your mood about it, but you get to decide if you want to be a willing participant. "Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, 'Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob's descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.'"
What an interesting beginning for a kingdom that will never end. The virgin womb of a woman changed the world. Now watch this. She hears all that, and verse 34 says, "'How will this be,' Mary asked the angel, 'since I am a virgin?' The angel answered, 'The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month.'"
Watch God do stuff that people said he couldn't do. "…she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. For no word from God will ever fail". Well, since you put it like that… "'I am the Lord's servant,' Mary answered. 'May your word to me be fulfilled.' Then the angel left her. At that time Mary got ready and hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea, where she entered Zechariah's home and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit".
All right. Now I'm going to give you your title. I have good news for you today. This is going to be the best holiday message you've ever heard in your life. Look at your neighbor and tell them my title: You Don't Have To. Didn't it feel good to hear that? All the stuff you have to do between now and December 25. Look at your other neighbor, the one you really wanted to talk to all along but you were just being nice to that guy, and tell them, "You don't have to". Let's give God praise in the place. Come on, if you want to. You don't have to.
Now, the Lord was convicting me recently, because I was going through a list of responsibilities, and the responsibilities I was listing were former prayer requests I had prayed. They were little baby prayers that I prayed that were now full-grown jobs. I noticed something in my language, and the Lord really checked me on it. Everything had "Got to" in front of it. Everything. I would love to tell you it was just the things I didn't want to do. I'm not going to say something I don't want to do because it might offend somebody in the room. You know, I would never say, "I've got to preach," but, well… Sometimes it does feel like that. You know, the people are coming and I've got to get ready. I've got to. Sometimes I want to go watch my kids play volleyball or wrestle and I say, "I've got to go to Graham's match".
I don't think there's anything wrong about that, the semantics of stating things. I don't ever want to be one of these vocabulary police Christians that when you say, "I got lucky; I got a parking space," they say, "There's no such thing as luck. You're blessed and highly favored". It's like, "No. Actually, God probably wants me to get some extra walking, so he probably did not give me the parking space close to the front door at the gym. That doesn't even logically make sense. It was just luck". But in all of the "got tos," I realized sometimes I lose my "get to" spirit.
I don't know if the season and the pressures and demands thereof have stripped some of the delights for you, but I just found recently that everything felt like a "got to," even stuff I love…preaching to you, supporting my kids. I even said to my barber, "I've got to go, because I've got date night with Holly, and I've got to go on this date night". Got to go on date night with Holly? I would have killed 17 men to go on a date with her when we were in college. I would have slit their throats and prayed for a resurrection.
Maybe you need this message too, because there can come a point in all of our lives where the God who has graciously given us so many good gifts begins to feel to us either like a silent benefactor we forget to thank or an obligator rather than a bringer of the good news of the gospel who has set us free from the law of sin and death and has graciously given us all things richly to enjoy. For if he gave his own Son for us and did not spare him, but gave him up for us, how will he not much more give us all things? But a lot of the gifts God gives us become prisons because our perspective is so overwhelmed by the pressure. I know you have some pressure. I have some pressure.
What we're trying to establish in our time together today in my sermon and what I thought I would try to help you to do before you go into the next few weeks and wrap this year up and see what God has for you in 2025… Look alive in '25. Before you get all that going, I thought I would try to get you back to realizing that you have a God who didn't have to give you anything he gave you. It's not good to have a "got to" spirit when you serve a "get to" God. One of the things I love about the passage we read today was the sense of privilege Mary seemed to receive this invitation to carry the Son of God with. I know it must have also felt like pressure, but somehow she was able to view the pressure of carrying the sinless Son of God in her virgin womb as a privilege, so she accepted that assignment.
One of the things pressure will do in your life is not only turn things you used to delight in into things you actually dread (I could preach a whole sermon about that), but it could also, if you're not careful, turn things you ought to praise God for into things you feel pride about. Often, when we feel the heaviness of our responsibility… You know, "Somebody has to put these Christmas lights up. Somebody has to make all of the plans. Somebody has to decide whose house we're going to eat at. Somebody has to figure out who's going to bring the macaroni, and I don't really want Susan to bring it, because I don't like her macaroni. I think it's kind of dirty and a little too cheesy. Somebody has to keep the cheese ratio and the macaroni together. I mean, the whole universe is kind of hinging on it, isn't it"?
Then we come to something like this, and it only takes one sentence to shift Mary from "How in the world"? to "Let it be". I thought that was so powerful when I read it. I thought it was so amazing and so admirable of Mary to go from, "How are we going to do this"? to "Let it be just like you said". I think there is something powerful about when you get a real word from God. You can't explain it. It's subtle. It's usually not visible to other people's eyes, but something shifts in a moment when God speaks. You go from "I've got to" to "He's got this," and you can't even explain how you got there. It's an invisible path you're taking.
You've been there before. You've gone from "There's no way I'm going to do this" to "I don't really know how I did it, but it's done". You've been in seasons of your life where you've looked at your schedule and thought, "I'll be dead at the end of this". Breathe in. Breathe out in the Devil's face just to let him know he was a liar for everything he said you weren't going to make it through in 2024. There were some things you looked at out in front of you, and when they were in front of you, you were afraid, but now they're behind you.
If you were afraid when they were in front of you, shouldn't you give God praise now that they're behind you? The truth is you wouldn't believe what I'm standing on today, because I could have tripped over it, but somehow God turned what I could have tripped on into something I'm standing on, and I have a testimony. I'm saying if Jesus came into the world through a virgin womb, there's nothing he can't do. Now, it's important, theologically speaking, for Jesus to be born of a virgin. First of all, he came through a virgin because he had to be clean. If he were born with a human father, he would carry the seed of the sin of Adam, so it had to be a virgin.
That's not just a Catholic thing; that's a clean thing. The unclean cannot be redeemed by the unclean. The only thing that can redeem the unclean (that's me, that's you) is a clean thing (that's not me, that's not you). So, in order for God to redeem you, he had to send a clean thing into the earth, and the only way for it to be a clean thing was for it to not come from Joseph. It had to come from God. Jesus, if he had been born through Joseph in Mary's womb, would not have been able to pay the price on the cross.
So he had to be clean. He also had to be born of a virgin not only because it was prophesied that he would be but because he wanted to come close. I mean, you do understand Jesus could have come rappelling from the staircase of heaven, gone straight to the cross, and skipped all of the storms on the Sea of Galilee. There was no rule that said God had to send Jesus as a baby. I think one of the reasons he sent Jesus as a baby to a virgin womb is not only because Jesus had to be clean and because Jesus wanted to be close but because he also wanted Jesus to get credit.
Clean, close, credit…the three C's of Christmas. Jesus was clean, born of a virgin, not of the seed of a man but the seed of God, the perfect, spotless Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world, the Lion of the tribe of Judah who rolled back the stone and stood up with the keys of death, hell, and the grave. He was clean. He was close. The thing about a virgin having a baby is she can't take any credit, and neither can the man. "Why are you taking time to explain about a virgin having a baby, Pastor Steven, on Christmas"? Because, obviously, God thought it important enough that he started the entire gospel story with it.
I wonder if it's because he wants you to realize that this thing did not start with you, so this thing doesn't have to be sustained by you. I wonder if why you feel so much unnecessary pressure is because you're trying to sustain something you didn't even start. I mean, how much did you have with being born the first time? Not too much. I mean, you came on out eventually. But you didn't take much credit, did you? I don't even know why we're singing "Happy birthday" to you. We ought to be singing "Happy birthday" to the one who pushed you out.
See, we like to take credit for stuff, and then that spills over into our Christianity, because we didn't have anything to do with being born again either if you want to get down to it. I mean, most of us in here tried so hard to push God away. It's not like we had some awesome résumé to present to the Redeemer of the universe, all of the reasons he should recruit us for his service. No, that's not your story. The matter of the fact is you were dead in your sin, but God… So, we come to the cradle of Christmas realizing the reason Jesus was born as a baby from the womb of a virgin in a place called Galilee of the Gentiles was so that when God got done doing what he was going to do through Jesus, nobody else would get the glory. Nobody else would get the praise, and nobody else would get the credit, because I'm not clean, and I wasn't close, but here came Jesus at just the right time.
This is my Christmas devotion. Let me preach it like I feel it. I was lost without anyone to guide me. I was blind and couldn't see. I was nobody. I had nothing to bring to the King that was of worth. I had no crown to place on his head, and he took a crown of thorns for me. You see, he deserves all the credit. By the way, if you start giving God all the credit, he'll start taking more of the stress. All right. Let me really preach to y'all now. There was a group of preachers who came to visit us about a year ago, and one of them wanted to know, "What do I do about critics? What do I do about critics"? I said, "I have no idea. I've never had one. What are you speaking of, these critics? I find people loving and generous in their interpretation of all of your…"
No. Actually, what I said was, "If you want to survive criticism, you have to change your relationship with praise". He said, "No, I'm not asking about praise; I'm asking about critics". I said, "Yeah, but if they have the power to praise you, then they also have the power to pull you down". So, when people praise you, don't take it too seriously. They just haven't gotten close enough yet. When people criticize you, don't take it too personally. They just don't want you to see that big ol' plank sticking out of their right eye, so they're talking about a speck in yours. Either way you slice it, it's the same principle. "I thought we were talking about Christmas".
We are. Remember that what started in the cradle ended on the cross, and we know so much about Mary that Mary doesn't know about Mary yet. We know she initiated Jesus' first miracle when she said, "Get ready and turn this water into wine". Jesus said, "Woman, my hour has not yet come". She said, "Well, you don't have to," but she turned to the servants and said, "Do whatever he tells you". The wine started flowing when that woman spoke. Wow! We know about Mary that she became frustrated with Jesus' popularity because she felt that it kept him from being intimate with his family. She stood outside the door, saying, "He's going crazy. Go in there and tell him he's going crazy".
We know that although Mary was frustrated, though, she would not forsake Jesus, for she was there at the foot of the cross with one disciple named John when her son died. There are some things about Mary that Mary doesn't know yet, yet she accepts the promise of God to her virgin womb. Now, I don't know what you noticed when we read. I don't know how closely you pay attention when I read the Scripture. I notice sometimes we have to go back to it, because when I'm reading it the first time you're kind of getting oriented. Go back to verse 26 for a moment. Can we study? We're going to do a lot of singing next Sunday, so I'm going to get all the study part in this Sunday so you'll be ready. This word is going to help you get ready for everything you have coming up this week.
Verse 26: "In the sixth month of Elizabeth's pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee…" We need to talk about two things in this passage. We need to talk about who Gabriel is and what Galilee is. I'll do it in reverse order. Galilee is the place where Jesus is going to do the majority of his ministry. He will not die in Galilee; he will die in Jerusalem, but he will minister and base his operations 30 years from now out of Galilee. He will calm storms on the Sea of Galilee. He will heal the blind eyes in the region of Galilee. It's going down in Galilee in just about 30 years. God is setting all of this up through a girl, and he sends an angel named Gabriel.
Gabriel is not a minimum-wage angel. There are only two angels in the whole Bible who we know the names of. There's Michael. Michael is the fighting angel. Michael is the MMA angel. Michael will choke you out. Michael is the "cauliflower ear" angel. Michael is the guy you don't want to mess with. Gabriel is not the fighting angel; he's the "fill you in" angel. He's the angel who came to Daniel and explained to him about the prophecies. He brought him clarity in Daniel, chapters 8 and 9. Then we don't see him again for a long time, and we see him go to Galilee, which is strange. Before he goes to Galilee, he goes to Jerusalem. That's why I read you the verse where it said, "It was the sixth month of Elizabeth's pregnancy".
Now, Elizabeth was a relative of Mary. Her husband was named Zechariah, and Zechariah was a priest. One day, Zechariah the priest, who was very old, went into the temple to burn incense, as it was his duty to do by the lots that were cast. As he was there burning incense, an angel showed up right there by the altar and said, "Zechariah, I know you haven't felt like your old self in quite some time, buddy, but get ready; you're about to have a baby". Zechariah said, "But I'm old". Gabriel said, "But I'm Gabriel". Ooh, I felt that on my spinal column when I said it. "But I'm Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God. I don't care how old you are, and I don't care if you've put all of the baby clothes away from all of the times you've tried before".
See, Zechariah and Elizabeth had never had a baby. Her womb was barren. She was advanced in age. Even though she was of the line of Aaron, even though she was a very significant person, as her husband stood in Jerusalem burning incense, the angel Gabriel showed up to say, "You're about to have a baby". Zechariah said, "It cannot be. I'm old". He said, "Because you said that, and because I'm Gabriel, and because I stand in the presence of God and you don't, and because I come from heaven and you don't, shut your mouth. You're not speaking again until the baby is born. When the baby is born, you're going to name him John, and when everybody asks you, 'Why John?' say it's because I'm Gabriel and I came with a message from God".
Zechariah came out of the temple smelling like incense smoke but not able to say very much. Zechariah had to learn sign language really quickly coming out of that temple, because everybody wanted to know what happened and why he was in there so long. "It's kind of weird. You were in there a long time, Zechariah. It doesn't take that long to light incense. What was going on in there"? But that has been six months ago, and that makes sense. Of course the angel Gabriel, the messenger Gabriel, the clarifying angel Gabriel, the "fill you in and tell you what God is about to do" angel…
Of course he would show up to a priest in a place like Jerusalem. Jerusalem was the center point of Jewish worship. I expect to see Gabriel at the temple in Jerusalem speaking to a priest. I expect to see Gabriel standing at the threshold of the place where the offerings and the sacrifices were made. You expect to see Gabriel in a place like that. What I didn't expect was six months later to see that same Gabriel, one of only two angels whose names we know in Scripture, one of the archangels in Scripture… What I didn't expect was to see Gabriel show up in a place like Galilee.
Let's talk about Galilee. Galilee is 70 miles from Jerusalem. Galilee is not considered very significant by the people who live in Jerusalem. Galilee is mixed with Jews and Gentiles, so the religious customs are questionable at best. It was referred to as the land of darkness. I'm not surprised to see Gabriel show up in the temple where the priest is burning incense. That seems like something worthy of Gabriel's time. But I am surprised to see Gabriel show up six months later for a special appointment with a girl, whose name would not even be known had Gabriel not shown up to tell her what she was carrying, in a place called Galilee, which nobody even found worth putting on their itinerary when planning an important trip. All that I said to say this.
God is going to show up in some unexpected places in your life in this season, and don't be too surprised, because God is not bound to the customs and traditions that people are bound to. God doesn't just show up in holy families and "oh, holy nights" and silent nights. The King we serve, before he went to a throne, stopped by a manger. I want to speak to somebody this Christmas season who is going through a Galilee in your family.
I don't know exactly what that means to you, but perhaps you do. Maybe it's a Galilee in your relationship with your children. Maybe it's a Galilee in your relationship with your wife. Maybe it's a Galilee in your own emotional despondency. Galilee can be a dark place. Galilee can seem like an insignificant place. Galilee can become an insecurity so that you begin to think, "No one as important as God would have time for someone as insignificant as me," which is why I read you Luke 1:26. "God sent an angel named Gabriel to a place called Nazareth in a region called Galilee".
I announce to you this day: Gabriel is coming to Galilee. Do you hear me at Dove's Nest? You can't be with your children this Christmas because you're in recovery. Gabriel is coming to Galilee. Hear the voice of the Lord now. Don't listen to my voice. Listen to the voice of the Lord. Some of you are bereaved this season. Gabriel is coming to your grieving. Some of you have been betrayed in this season of your life. Gabriel is coming into the betrayal, because God is sending him, and when God sends Gabriel, Gabriel has to go.
See, I want you to understand that when God speaks a word, he does not consult circumstances. When God speaks a word over your life, when God speaks a word over your destiny, when God speaks a word over your future, when God speaks a word over your relationship, when God speaks a word over your baby, when God speaks a word over your lifespan, when God speaks a word over your generational impact… When God says, "Gabriel, go," Gabriel doesn't get to say to God, "I'm not going to Galilee". It's only humans who do that. We disobey. We get stubborn. We don't want to forgive because we've been hurt. Gabriel goes where God says to go. What I'm trying to get you to see is the miracle of Christmas is that I could not get to God. My sin was great.
Christmas is not just sentimental for me; it is salvation to me. My life is on the line. I cannot walk straight. I cannot be clean. I cannot come close. I cannot take credit, for my righteousness was as filthy rags. So you cannot get to God. You say, "How is that good news that I can't get to God"? You don't have to. That's what makes it good news. The more you realize that, you're going to start praying faster when you mess up. I don't have to get it right to come to God. I don't have to be clean. He was clean. I don't have to be clean to come close. He was clean. He came close. He gets the glory, and I feel like giving him 24 seconds of Christmas praise! I'll give you 10 more seconds to praise him. Let's practice. Ten more seconds to praise him. Eight seconds to give him credit. Five seconds to let the stress go. Three, two, one!
High-five your neighbor and say, "Gabriel is coming"! Yeah, Gabriel is coming. God is going to give you clarity about that thing in your darkness. God is going to give you perspective about that thing in your darkness. God is going to give you provision for that thing in your darkness. Gabriel came to Galilee. Aren't you glad about that? It makes me think if I get a little depressed, I can call on Jesus. I can call on heaven. I can call on the angels. I can call on the light even in the darkest place, because Gabriel… This is it. Gabriel came to Galilee, and he came to Galilee to get it ready for somebody greater. Yet isn't it amazing of God to start something so great as the salvation of the world…?
Think of all of the great things that would happen in Galilee. Think of all of the great things that would happen at the cross. Think of all of the great things that would happen on the other side of the empty tomb, yet he started something so great in something so small as a baby. It makes me think that God wanted me to know he can hold me too. I mean, think about it. I'm going to give it to you like the Lord gave it to me this morning. Think about the fact that the angel told Mary not that God would descend from the skies like Thor but would wrap himself in little baby flesh in all of the attendant idiosyncrasies of a baby. He came like a baby, which means he had to be held by humans.
Now, sometimes we need a practical sermon. Sometimes we just need to revel and marvel in the glory of God. Watch this. Heaven was held by humanity. That's amazing. And he didn't have to do it. Jesus was fully God and fully man. So the choice he made to be held by human hands was not of necessity; it was of love. The heavenly King, the Most High God, held by human hands. Oh, I wish you could see it like I see it, because I see that the reason heaven had to be held by humans was so humans could be held by heaven. The Lord wanted you to remember that you are held this season. You're like, "Yeah, I've been 'helled.' Hell has been all up in my life. I have been 'helled.'" No, no. I'm saying held by the hand of God.
When I look back, I see it so clearly. Satan came for my soul, but the Lord said, "No". I've been held by the hand of God. I've been hidden by the hand of God. This is what we call the invitation of incarnation in theological terms, that heaven was held by humanity so humanity could be held by heaven. Just to remember, as you walk through your life, that you are being carried. Give him the credit for carrying you. Say, "Thank you". Every step an arrival, every step an announcement that God is not through with me yet. This Mary would hold heaven in her arms. She held heaven, but I think the secret to Mary… I thought about calling this sermon "I Make Mary Moves".
It was so dumb I shouldn't have told you I thought about calling it that. One thing she said that I thought was so powerful… I know, Holly, your favorite verse is Luke 1:38, but my favorite verse is Luke 1:34. Let me show you her favorite verse first, verse 38. "I am the Lord's servant. May your word to me be fulfilled". Here's my favorite one, verse 34: "How"? That's my verse. "How"? Don't act like you're not living with some hows in your house. "How am I going to make it through this whole month without cussing somebody out in Japanese? I might learn Japanese just to cuss somebody out in Japanese acting like this". "How am I going to pay for all this crap"? Go back to my earlier point: credit. "How am I ever going to catch up if I keep on consuming like this"?
Now, Mary isn't asking that. She's not spending money at the mall. She's trying to give birth to the Son of God, but I thought we could have some common ground with Mary. "How"? Let me ask a question. How many of you are living in a how right now? I think the purpose of the Christmas story is not just in being held but in being humbled. "Jesus, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped" (Philippians 2:5-10). He emptied himself. He humbled himself, taking on the form of flesh of a servant. So, Jesus humbled himself, and so did Mary, and so must you and I.
"How will this be"? "How am I going to do it without drinking again? How am I going to do it without having a nervous breakdown? How am I going to do it when I wasn't raised and taught? How am I going to do it when nobody in my family ever did? How am I going to do it at this age and stage of life? How am I going to do it when I can't even feel God when I'm in church"? "'How will this be,' Mary asked the angel, 'since I am a virgin?'" Valid question. Powerful answer. Verse 35: "The angel answered…"
How many of you would like to have an appointment with an angel so you could get some answers for your how today? Come on. Say, "I want an appointment". "I want an appointment with Gabriel so he can tell me how I'm supposed to put up with this mess. I want an appointment with Gabriel so he can tell me how I'm supposed to fix this mess. I want an appointment with Gabriel so he can tell me whether I should stay or go. I want an appointment with Gabriel so I can ask him what to do about this trauma that happened a long time ago, and it stayed in my life even though the trial is over. I want an appointment with that angel". I thought it was crazy that when the angel answered, he didn't really say how. He just said who. The answer to how is a who. "The angel answered, 'The Holy Spirit will come…'"
Now we have something better than Gabriel. Now we have something better than an angel. I don't have an angel standing next to me today, but I do have the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is my answer to the question called how. The Holy Spirit speaks up when the lies are raging in my mind. "The angel answered, 'The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.'" I'll read it again. "The Holy Spirit will come on you…" This promise is for you. "The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you". The power of the Most High will overshadow you. I hear you saying, "I don't know how," and I hear God saying, "You don't have to".
See, you do not have to know how if you can get a glimpse of who. That's what I know. That's what I hope in. That's what I stand on. That's what I rejoice in. That's what I know. That's what I'm talking about. That's why I'm worshiping. That's why my hands are lifted…not because I know how but because I know who. The Lord is bringing back to my mind everything I studied to preach to you this week. He was telling me how sometimes in your life you get so caught up in how you miss the power of who. You get hung up on how, and you're going to end up like Zechariah, old "bad-knees" Zechariah, incense-burning, "stay-in-the-bathroom-temple-too-long" Zechariah, talking about, "I should have kept my mouth shut".
God knows how, and you don't have to. Wouldn't that be wonderful news? Let's put ourselves in Mary's shoes for a moment. Can we for just one moment pretend this has happened to us? We are not expecting an angelic visitation. We haven't even gotten our wedding registry set up yet, and God is talking about a baby. The Lord says, "You're pregnant, and you're going to give birth to the Son of God". No pressure. Mary is like, "I've got to"? No. "I get to". "I appreciate you giving me these kids to raise, God. I appreciate you giving me this church. I appreciate you giving me this business. I appreciate you giving me this department. I appreciate you giving me this opportunity, but what do I do with the pressure"?
This is so powerful. It's so powerful to me. Going through her mind are a million questions. She's already engaged to Joseph. How do you tell your fiancé? "Yeah, I met this guy named Gabriel. But he's an angel. Don't worry. He's an angel named Gabriel". How do you tell your husband you're pregnant and he knows it wasn't him? "How am I going to tell him"? Well, look over in Matthew, chapter 1, when you get home. "Mary, I know you can't figure out how you're going to tell Joseph, but you don't have to". A little bit after Gabriel got done telling Mary she was going to have a baby, another angel popped up and told Joseph, "Hey, believe her". You don't have to convince anybody. You don't have to prove anything to anybody. You don't have to.
Stop trying to defend yourself to people who aren't even paying attention. Stop having imaginary arguments with hypothetical opponents. You keep your heart right with God in this season. You don't have to tell them anything about red states, blue states…none of that. That doesn't even have to come up. Let me tell you something about the arguments that are going to happen around your table this holiday season. Let me tell you about the arguments you want to win. You don't have to. You don't have to win an argument. All you have to do is complete your assignment.
Man, I was so stressed out one day, having a bunch of people over, and my friend said, "What do you think they're expecting when they come over to the house"? I said, "I don't know". They said, "You have one job: nobody drowns in the pool". I said, "It's that simple"? They said, "Yeah. You don't have to create some magical moment". Do you know what it was? I figured out what it was. I feel pressure to perform because in my job, in my line of work, you expect me to have something to say, and it needs to kind of make sense, and it needs to be something you probably couldn't have thought of on your own or else why did you get the ice off the windshield to come hear this stuff.
Wouldn't it be prideful of me to think that a good God, who has angels like Gabriel, would need a messenger like me to be perfect to speak his Word to you? Wouldn't it be stupid? Wouldn't it be wrong? Wouldn't it be crushing for you to live under the debilitating weight of how when it has never been about how? It has always been about who. Here's what God has been doing in our lives. Some of us in this season have been humbled by how. That's it. We've been humbled by how, because we thought it was going to turn out one way, and it's going a completely different way. It doesn't mean God isn't doing what he's going to do. He's just not doing it how you wanted. You are being humbled by how.
Do you need another example? Think about the nation of Israel who was standing before a giant named Goliath with swords and spears. When it came time for God to take out Goliath, he did not use a sword or a spear; he used a slingshot. Why? So the army would know it is not by sword or spear that God saves. He used a shepherd with a slingshot to bring down a giant, because God will use the how to humble you. God will put you up in front of a Red Sea. He will put a stick in your hand. You will be looking at a sea, hearing the clatter of chariot wheels behind you, wondering, like Mary wondered, "How? How am I going to make it across"?
God will speak to the insignificant thing in your hand, and he will cause you to stretch the thing in your hand over the thing you can't go through, because he wants to humble you in the how. Jesus could have come to the earth any way he wanted. Jesus could have come to the earth like Simba. Jesus could have come to the earth in a supernatural way, but the hands that hung the stars in space were held in a virgin womb, were held by Mary's hands, were held by the nails of the cross. Why? God humbles you by how so that when he does it there will be no confusion about who's doing it. If you do it, you have to keep doing it, but if he began a good work in you… I feel somebody's help coming. God said, "I'm using the how to humble you".
That is why he came as a baby: so you would be humbled by the how. When you are humbled by the how, now you can be helped. I feel like help is going to come to you this Christmas season, help you didn't count on, help you forgot about. "I don't know how". You don't have to. Some of you have been saying, "I can't do this alone," and God is saying, "You don't have to". What the angel said to Mary the Holy Spirit is saying to you. "The Lord is with you". You don't have to do this alone. You don't have to make these decisions alone. The Holy Spirit will help you. The Spirit who brought Jesus to Mary is the Spirit who lives in you. The Holy Spirit will help you.
I want to pray for people today who are hung up on how right now. That's fine. Just remember that God isn't going to show you how, because he wants to show you who. So, I want us to flip our prayer. As the Lord instructed me, I have imparted to you today this great revelation of grace that you don't have to. You get to carry Christ this Christmas season. I dare you to go back to this week with a little bit different attitude. I mean, don't go back quoting this sermon to your wife or your boss, telling them, "The word of the Lord is I don't have to". You're going to get fired and you can't tithe and we'll have to shut the church down. Don't do that.
Listen to me. There's some stuff you are carrying that you are not meant to carry, and it's causing you to forget about the Christ you are called to carry. I love being practical, and I love breaking it down. One of my friends said the other day, "I love when you preach stuff. It gets me excited. You tell me about Galilee, you tell me about Gabriel, but tell me how". See, the thing about it is I don't have to. If you would get still for just one moment in the presence of God and humble your heart, the Holy Spirit will overshadow you and the hand of God will hold you.
Now, this is optional. You don't have to give your next few weeks to God at the end of this year, but his hands are ready if you want to. You don't have to take any time over the next few weeks to thank God for the promotions he brought in your life this year, for the friends he brought in your life this year, for the enemies he held back from destroying you this year, for the sickness he lifted off your life this year, for the way he averted the situation this year that could have gone another way. You don't have to thank God for any of that. You don't have to, but the gospel says you get to. This is our privilege to carry the presence of God.
I was just thinking about another Mary. Do you remember in Scripture where Mary and Martha had Jesus in their home? Do you know this story in Luke, chapter 10? Mary was sitting at the feet of Jesus, and Martha was trying to get some work done around here. Jesus was teaching, and Martha was bossing. Martha thought Jesus would take her side and said, "Tell my sister Mary to help me".
This is a different Mary, but look at what Jesus said about this Mary in Luke 10:42. I think this would be a pretty good mission statement for you and me too. "Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed". "Wait a minute. Don't you see all this work I have to get done"? No, you don't have to. You don't have to. Ninety-eight percent of your list is optional. You get to. Watch this. He said, "There's only one thing necessary, and Mary has chosen what is better, and it won't be taken away from her". So, I'm just going to beg you and implore you on behalf of Christ. Do not give yourself over to things at the end of this year that can be taken away so easily.
Lord, as we come to you today, I am aware that there are some who are under the sound of my voice, whether in person or separated by miles, who are in a Galilee of sorts. We thank you today that your message knows no bounds. You can enter any situation. You can enter any dysfunction. You can enter any trial. But, Lord, for some of us, we're just running around with the spirit of obligation when we serve the God of good news and grace. So, I thank you, Lord, for the way you are resetting our hearts in your presence. We're calling on you, God, the God of Mary, whose favor rests upon the lowly. We know with you all things are possible. We lift our hands to heaven now.
Go ahead and lift your hands to heaven right now if you know that you are held by the hands of God. "O God, my God, I need you. O God, my God, I need you now, how I need you now".