Mensa Otabil - Choose the Right Way (10/24/2025)
We are looking at Proverbs Chapter 14 and learning lessons of wisdom from the Book of Proverbs. It’s always important that we apply our hearts to the things we hear from the Scriptures. We are at verse number 12: Proverbs 14, verse 12. There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death. The paths we take in life will determine the destinations we arrive at.
It’s a very simple principle: if you take a path toward a certain place, that’s where you’re going to arrive. If we choose the right way, we arrive at the right destination; if we choose the wrong way, we arrive at the wrong destination. The question all of us have to think about as we journey in life is, «What path am I on? Is it the right path or the wrong way?» The passage says that sometimes the way may seem right to us, but then it’s a wrong way. The fact that you think it’s right does not make it right. So what are the things we should be contemplating as we look at the pathway to determine whether it’s the right way or the wrong way?
I’m going to talk about three characteristics of the wrong way. First, the wrong way is easy. The wrong way is usually accessible; it does not offer us much resistance. One of the reasons why the wrong way is easy is that many people are on it. As human beings, we are social creatures; we like company. When a lot of people are doing something, we tend to follow along. If many people are buying something, we think it’s right for us to buy it. If a lot of people are behaving a certain way, we think we should also behave that same way. Because of that, the wrong way, when embraced by the majority, is very easy. That’s one of the reasons why a way may seem right to us but is wrong: because everybody is doing it. The reality of life, especially from the Bible, is that the majority are usually wrong. That is the Bible’s concept; the majority are usually wrong, so the wrong way may seem easy.
Secondly, the wrong way is usually pleasurable. Normally, when something is pleasurable, it gives us joy; it’s fun, it’s exciting. We assume it’s good. Some people ask, «How can something that feels so good be wrong? If it gives me so much pleasure and makes me feel good, how can it be wrong?» We equate good feelings with being right. However, that is the age-old temptation. In the Book of Genesis, the first temptation seemed good and felt good but was wrong. If you think that just because something is popular, or just because it is fun or exciting, it must be right, you will end up on the wrong path. Sin is always packaged as pleasurable. Come to think of it, would you commit sin if it were not pleasurable? No.
The third reason the wrong way is misleading is that it usually offers short-term gratification. It provides instant results, making you feel good right now. The wrong way doesn’t consider the end; it doesn’t think about consequences. For us as human beings, it doesn’t think about eternity-whether there is a heaven or a hell-because many of us have banished heaven and hell to ancient myths, as if there are no eternal consequences to our actions. If you’re not thinking about eternal consequences, you are likely doing the wrong thing.
So that’s what we learn about the wrong way. Let’s pray. Say with me: Heavenly Father, deliver me from self-deception. Help me to see life from an eternal point of view. In Jesus' name, amen and amen.