Andy Stanley — If I Were You
Marriage was not designed to fix things. In fact, oftentimes the bad things only get magnified in marriage. Since that is the case, why not start becoming the person your spouse needs now?
Your preparation now is worth way more than your commitment later on. With that in mind, choose one area Andy Stanley mentioned (debt, unresolved past, bad habits, dress, boundaries) and create a goal.
Then list the necessary short-term steps that will set you on a path toward becoming the person that the person you are looking for is looking for.